Unnoticeably tucked under an ordinary block of flats, Hong Kah North Day Care Centre was nowhere near quiet. The small centre bustled with people and activity and I immediately felt my excitement level shoot up!
Initially, I thought it would be difficult to communicate with the elderly using my rusty dialect but I was so wrong. Before I knew it, the elderly were having so much fun laughing because I spoke my “Rojak” (Hokkien mixed with Mandarin and English), and I must say they make really good dialect teachers!
Interactions with other elderly with sight and hearing challenges weren’t exactly easy. My friend and I didn’t know what to do when some of them did not understand what we were trying to say. Fortunately, some others were able to read our thoughts and helped communicate them. Observing how others conversed effectively, I learnt to speak at a slower pace for those who had difficulty hearing so that they could somewhat read my lips, and for those who are having problems with their eye sight, I would sit closer to them so that they could hear me better.
Being assigned to the team going through Reality Orientation (a technique used help in managing the degeneration of cognition and memory, by stimulating the memory and to helping to improve response to the surrounding environment), I heard the elderly share their experiences of the different types of housing they had stayed in when they were younger. Their stories were so interesting; I felt my self saying, “More, more!” However, time whizzed by so quickly and before I knew it, it was time for the debriefing.
Indeed, it was a fulfilling day although the programme only lasted two hours. The elderly warmed up to us very easily, and I am sure anyone would be captivated by their easy going attitude.
If you’re lucky, the elderly might even share one or two little secrets with you like they did with me! Hidden gems – that’s what they truly are and what they freely share.
Contributed by volunteer, Kulaa